I was in the shower this morning and all these crazy thoughts came to me but mostly " How bloody confusing it is to be a woman?" Growing up with Christian parents who regularly attended Church was confusing as hell. I was told to sit like a lady, act like a lady, do this or that young lady! I wondered who were these mysterious ladies that I was supposed to be like. I don't think Church actually did me any harm, in fact it probably gave me some . . .

My husband is a fuckwit, jerk, asshole and every other name you can call him. Except he is actually none of these things at all. My husband is wonderful. There seems to be a growing trend in blogs, Facebook status and general online chat with women of putting down their spouse. Help me understand, or maybe I don't want to 'get it'. Relationships can be hard, adding kids to the mix can make them more challenging, add work pressures, late . . .