As i wrote the words severe disability and complex care needs on a form my heart sank. As I write them now a lump forms in my throat. You are so much more than your disability darling, just as we are so much more than our weight, our insecurities, our scars, our jobs and others opinions of us. Your disability is fucked darling, but you are truly amazing. Having a child with a disability is a strange thing, strange because you see the child, . . .